23 Things on a Stick: 20
Social Networking
I am afraid I can’t try anything new for this exercise. I have had a Facebook account since 2005, when they approved it for my undergraduate college. It used to be on a by-college basis, and there was a petition for each college that had to get so many signatures. I got a Myspace account shortly thereafter. I use them intelligently and make use of extended privacy features to ensure that no one can access my information unless I want it. I don’t put information up that I wouldn’t be okay with a future employee seeing, anyway.
I personally prefer Facebook over Myspace, and I do see why it is becoming much more popular. Facebook profiles have a consistent layout and more control over what your computer is exposed to—on the other hand, Myspace profiles allow full customization and HTML. While this is pleasant for some people, many use the power badly, and Myspace profiles are often very slow loading with several images, loud music, and tacky backgrounds making the text difficult to read. I think the tasteful design of Facebook also encourages people who might not have otherwise used social networking to see it as an acceptable (semi-professional) method of communication. There are also many more options of what one can do on Facebook than there are on Myspace (unless you want music or video). The news feed is something you can’t leave out when talking about Facebook. When you log in, there is a “feed” of recent activity by your friends (this is customizable through privacy settings, and people won’t see any of your actions that you don’t want them to). The feed was initially controversial when it was introduced, but now people love it and can’t imagine Facebook without it. Myspace has introduced a rudimentary news feed, but it does not have nearly the resource sharing, commenting, and interactivity that Facebook has. I use Facebook multiple times a day some days and once a day or two on other days, but I only use Myspace once every week or two.
I’m not friends with any libraries on Myspace (nor am I aware of any pages for the libraries I am associated with… enlighten me if there are!), but I am a “fan” of the OU Libraries and OCU Law Library on Facebook. I am also part of several library-related groups, including the new OLISSA group brought to my attention just yesterday. The cool thing about groups on Facebook or becoming a fan of a page is that the people controlling the group/page don’t necessarily have access to your account unless you are their friend (depending on your privacy settings). On Myspace, most organizations make actual profiles, which can access your profile completely if you add them as a friend. Another comment—we can thank Facebook and Myspace for altering some of our vocabulary (adding to a folksonomy, if you will). I’m thinking particularly of turning “friend” into a verb. You often hear people saying, “I’m going to friend you on Facebook,” or “I was so excited that he friended me on Myspace.”
Privacy concerns: I hate to say it, parents, but your kids are probably more secure on Facebook or Myspace than they were before. There are just so many more kids online now, and social networking sites are so prominent in the media, that parents are worried. Social networking sites definitely put someone “out there,” but it is associated with their name, so the parents are able to know they have it and keep track of it. It is possible to put a fake name in your account, but few people are willing to do that because then their friends can’t find them even if they’re hiding from their parents. I know several kids who have Facebook and have their parents as friends (not on Limited Profile) so they can keep track of them. It all depends on the kid, how much you trust them, and the way they are using their account. A kid will still get in trouble if he or she wants to. When I was younger, we didn’t have social networking, and my parents were unaware of the implications of spending so much time online. They were good parents, but not as many kids were online then, so it wasn’t such an issue. No chat rooms or websites I was involved in included my full name, so my parents couldn’t find it unless they asked (and they didn’t). I am definitely a supporter of keeping track of your child’s activity on the internet, but don’t restrict them completely! Trust is important—let them have the account, but make them “friend” you.